叛逆的青春期The Rebel Adolescence

When students come into the period of high school, it means they are starting to become mature, and they have to the consciousness of being independent, at the same time, most parents haven’t realized that their kids have grown up, but they still treat them like small babies. Then the parents’ overprotection and the children’s desire to be independent conflict, so the students become rebels, in the hope that their parents would realize they are no more their babies. Everyone will come to adolescence, most students choose to go against what their parents tell them to do, announcing that they won’t be manipulated by anyone, they live for themselves. Less students choose to talk to their parents directly. This is how the generation gap comes, parents should realize their babies will grow up sooner
or later, learning to let go gradually. The children should talk to their parents calmly.
当学生来到高中时代的时候，这意味着他们已经开始迈向成熟，他们开始有独立的意识，同时，大部分父母还没有意识到他们的孩子已经长大，他们仍然把孩子当成婴儿。父母的过度保护和孩子的渴望独立产生了冲突，因此学生变得叛逆，希望他们的父母能意识到他们不再是小孩子。每个人都会经历青春期，大多数学生选择违背父母的意愿来做事，以此宣告不再受他们的操纵，为自己而活。极少学生选择直接和父母交流。这就是代沟的由来，父母应该意识到他们的孩子迟早会长大，学着去慢慢放手。孩子应该冷静地和父母谈谈。

幸福观My View on Happiness

In the old China, the happiness means the family gets together or the family tree is large and the daughters and sons are very kind to the parents.